The Temple of Goddess Spirituality
Dedicated to Sekhmet
A Project for the Study of the Gift Economy
under the direction of Genevieve Vaughan
In Memory of
Rev. Patricia Pearlman
1939 - 2006
 

From Genevieve Vaughyan: Patricia Pearlman, who for more than 10 years was the Priestess of the Temple of Goddess Spirituality dedicated to Sekhmet, passed away yesterday, March 24th, in Las Vegas, Nevada. She was my age, 66. I met Patricia in 1994 when Cynthia Burkhardt, who was the priestess of the temple for the first year of its existence, decided to move on to other activities. Patricia seemed to have all the capacities necessary for the priestess job, and she was also enthusiastic about doing it, so I hired her immediately. She seemed 'sent by the goddess'. Since I was living in Texas and the temple is in Cactus Springs, Nevada, I had to trust that Patricia would act on her own initiative to make it work.
And she did, with a flourish and energy that were truly admirable.
Patricia had a way of bringing spirituality down to earth, making it a part of every day, as well as maintaining the sense of the sacred. She gave hospitality to all who came in peace, while defending the temple from those who from time to time would want to dessecrate it. She also protected the fragile desert environment from possible pollution by guests. And she tried to embody the role and concept of Cronewitch, the title she gave to herself.
She had a great sense of humor and a flair for drama, as she strode the desert with her cane, her cloak, and often with her cigar. Patricia seriously attempted to practice the gift economy at the temple and gave her services in many ways to the community. Always intelligent, witty and fervent, she established the temple as an institution, giving it a foothold in a very unlikely environment, between the nuclear test site and the airforce base, not far from that  Disneyland for Adults where everything is bought and sold, which is Las Vegas. I admired Patricia and sometimes wondered how she could do it, but she did, and she created a community of people who came to the temple for rituals, healing, and advice.
Patricia also collaborated with the Western Shoshone, to whom I had restored the acreage of the land on which the temple is built, in 1992. There were many actions at the test site and elsewhere in which she (and sometimes I) participated, together with the Shoshone and for some years we were involved in a legal battle to keep a gravel pit from being built less than a mile away. Patricia also valiantly worked at solving many other bureaucratic problems having to do with the land. We had some good times together too, travelling to Glastonbury in England to the Goddess festival, and to number of other places on other occasions. Patricia loved nature and animals, and she loved her husband Al who also contributed a lot of work to the success of the temple. In fact it is not often in these times that we see a long term successful love relationship like they had. I admired both of them also for that.
Last year when she realized she had cancer Patricia stepped down from her priestess position and helped me in finding and hiring a new priestess, Anne Key, who is now successfully presiding at the temple.
All those whose lives Patricia so brilliantly touched will miss her.
She had travelled rather widely before I met her, and I remember her telling me about the time she danced in front of the Taj Mahal in a red dress. I like to think of her doing that.
Blessed be
Gen

 
From Sheila Randolph: I only met Patricia once. In Jan of 2001 I was on vacation at the Luxor, and decided to make an unannounced pilgrimage to the Temple. I took a wrong turn, and instead of turning into the drive for the Temple, I turned into the drive for the residence. Patricia didn't know me from Adam, but she came out of the house shouting words of welcome like she was expecting me. What was supposed to be a short trip to the Temple and back, ended up being a whole day event -- laughing and talking with Patricia and her husband, and getting lots of kisses from her dog.
She will be missed, but I'm sure she will return to us in some form. A spirit that strong will surely find a way.
Blessed Be,
Sheila
 
From Angie and Justin: That is one laugh we will miss dearly. May her life be celebrated and her death not mourned.  
From Sylvia Lee: Most respected and beloved High Priestess Patrcia Pearlman, considered an elder of the Temple of the Living Goddess Sekhmet left this world shortly after 10AM this morning. She died at home peacefully, her consort, Al, by her side.
Originally from New York and of Ukranian decent, Patricia was a very strong and yet quietly powerful woman who was always before her time. She was a divorcee during a time when you didn't get divorced, a single mother, a feminist who fought for women's rights, a sex therapist, a teacher, knowledgable in the Goddess Mysteries, a strong advocate of the Gift Economy as put forth by Genevieve Vaughn, a believer in the matriarchal path in spirit, someone who fought for religious understanding on every level possible, someone who reached out in the community to help those who were downtrod or lost their way, even ministering and teaching at the local prisons ( often with Crone Witch Novembrae). And above all perhaps, Patricia was a beloved daughter of the Goddess Sekhmet, whom she channeled messages from now and again that she shared with the temple membership and the world .
It was now over 10 years ago that Patricia took over the reigns at The Temple of the Living Goddess dedicated to Sekhmet ( better known as Sekhmet Temple) in Cactus Springs just north of Indian Springs, Nevada. She announced her retirement from an active role at the temple in 2003 when she was diagnosed with lung cancer, turning the care of the temple over to Priestess Anne Key in October of that year. After an operation in March of 2004 'Crone' as she was often lovingly called by those who cared for her so, was told by her doctors that the cancer was in remission and it looked like once again Patricia, with a little help from Sekhmet who she gave credit to, had beat yet another of the big diseases ( she also kicked TB and Polio as well when she was younger). Today, the reality of our mortality was again all too clear and we both mourn her death with you and celebrate her wonderful life with you.
Patricia's wish was that everyone remember her in their own way and I will abide by that. There will be no lavish memorial ceremony at the temple ( tho Anne is keeping candles lit for all who wish to venture up there at this time), no visitation at a funeral home. And in her typical fashion, not wanting people to fuss over her, this is how Crone wanted it and I hope all will do so. Light a candle, burn some solar incense in honor of Sekhmet and send her on her way to what she regarded as the Summerland.
On a personal note, I will miss Crone- her peering over her glasses at me at times when offering me sage words of advice, a hug when there are no words to say, her warped sense of humour, her deep belly laugh, that cackle, the smell of those cigars (yes she enjoyed those too!), that accent of hers, her stories, even her warm raspberry tea on a cold night by the fire...
As the song we sang numerous times at the temple goes, " We all come from the Goddess, and to her we shall return..."
Deservedly rest well Crone in the arms of Nuit, your battles and your service for and to your children across Sekhmet's desert here is done and we are all grateful for the gift of having you in our lives on all sorts of levels.
Funny, somehow I know that the brightest twinkling star we shall see tonite is you and your wonderful cackle from above...
 
From Pete Brown: I have known Patricia for five years.  I always admired her humor, wisdom and compassion and intelligence.   One year she was voted one of Nevada's five top women for her work with female prisoners. I believe she was a member of the national council of churches
in Las Vegas.    She was a big help and encouragement with me starting a group in Laughlin.I still have emails saved from her.   She also offered her services with my work with grieving families of suicide victims.   Patricia  did my formal initiation at the temple four years ago. She forgot the black hood so she lifted her dress over my head to bring me out of the darkness.LOL   When I could get to the temple more often I used to bring two cases of oriental juice of different flavors. Once I brought peach juice and she told everyone not to drink it as it was terrible. She wanted to keep it for her self. From then on I would bring an extra box of peach and sneak it in her car. Sometimes I would mail her a box.   I loved her sense of humor.  At the camp  fire one night she shared a story that
she was dozing off in front of the TV when she thought she was watching a  vampire movie. She woke up and realized it was Pope John Paul.    If any one will be welcomed back into the arms of the Goddess it is her.    I have my candle lit.
Blessed be
Peter Windshadow